The 5 Greatest lies

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Does anyone out there remember the joke that talks about the 5 greatest lies of all time?

If you don’t here is the list.

  1.  I’ll take it out if it hurts 
  2. I promise I wont cum in your mouth 
  3. That doesn’t make you look fat
  4.  I never lie. 
  5. The Check is in the mail

And Now thanks to Chip we have a new item to add to the list!

Drum roll please...

6. I send email or phone them every other day.

 

Read the email posted below.  An investor had a question about missing funds and Chip brushes the whole question off and blames the accountants.  Howard you owned the business it was your obligation to know what was being filed.Now comes the best part, Howard goes on about his sabbatical, his acting class, his trip to a 5 Star resort in Mexico and drops a bomb about “getting high and fucking butt.”

Hey Mr. investor guess what your money paid for.

1. A Sabbatical

2. An acting class at City College

3. Walking Basil around San Francisco

4. And “Getting high and fucking butt”

       I think our Price Charming Chip may be the next Bernie Madoff.

In related news 2 IRS agents came knocking on my door looking for Howard “Chip” Tharsing last week.  Something about some quarterly taxes that are not quite right.  He filed his taxes for the first time in 10 years and it sent up a red flag.  I guess he won’t be getting that refund he was looking forward to.

 

It just gets deeper and deeper for this guy.

 

—–Original Message—–

 

Howard and Bernie Separated At Birth

From: ChipT
To: JAmbrosino
Sent: Tue, Mar 7, 2006 2:19 pm
Subject: Re: Remaining funds

I am still sitting on hose funds waiting for answers from the accountants, who apparently now have to make some final filing to the IRS even though had told them at this time last year that the business was closed and everything should be finalized. Ah, well: accountants. I apologize for their delay. I send email or phone them every other day.

I am delighted to hear that you are thriving. I took all last year off as a sabbatical and even so far this year am not working. I am enjoying a class in beginning acting at City College, but otherwise spend my time gardening, walking Basil, and generally fooling around (i.e., getting high and fucking butt).

Walt and I are going to Mexico for five days next week, to get warm, and I will be sure to get some word on V back to you before then.

Cheers!
Chip

 

Q: Hey America  what are you doing today?

A: We are Getting High and Fucking Butt!

An Enlightened Email

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Lies Lies Lies
Liar


From: Howard Tharsing <howardtharsing@gmail.com>
Date: January 11, 2012 16:31:04 PST
To: ”Ramirez-Forcier, Joe” <JoeR@positiveresource.org>
Subject: Time for an appointment!
I apologize for being out of touch so long.

In October I  got a job at a small gift  shop in Bernal Heights.  I

worked hard, volunteered for extra shifts, and In December was asked

to stay on into the New Year.

Meanwhile, Matt was stealing money (my entire first paycheck),

behaving erratically, and belittling and ordering me around even more

than usual.  


I did not steal money.  Howard had his pay check deposited it our joint account. I paid household bills with the 250.00 that was deposited into our account.  What strikes me as odd is this;  When I was working and paying for everything it was our money, but when Chip started working it was stealing if I paid the bills from that account.   I was not belittling him. I was getting tired of Chip being High all the time.  I was also tired of his constant masturbation and porn watching, he would hold up in the room in the room smoking speed while watching porn and jacking off.   It was annoying.

Yes I was cranky because I wanted a life outside of sex and crystal meth. 

On December 28 we argued and he called the cops. Accusing me of scratching his neck (fiction) Matt had me arrested.

  During our relationship Howard was physically violent.  Howard has given me a black eye, a fat lip and several bruises on my arms and legs.  See blog post entitled He Deserved It.   When the SFPD arrived at our address my head was bleeding and the scratches on my neck were deep enough to require some stitches. As I recall the police scraped under his nails and found my skin.   I tried to stop the police from arresting him but because of the severity of the injuries the police arrested Howard. 

After 36 hours I was released because the DA dropped everything. 
I got a call from Chip while he was in county jail, begging me not to press charges so I did not press charges  

Matt meanwhile got a restraining order against me and I Have had no access
to clothes, shoes, etc.  He has also tried twice more to get me
arrested but the police refuse.
The SFPD took out the restraining order because of the severity of injuries I received from Chip beating me.  I was sensitive to the fact he had to work so I took all of his clothes to a dry cleaner close to his job and sent him a text message and voice mail informing him that the items were at the cleaners.  

He has my computer and used it to change passwords preventing me from
getting to my email.  Google finally restored the account to me (after
many days).  This is the first chance I have had to get to your email
address and write to you.
No I did not change passwords,  I did go into his email looking for clues as to where he might be hiding out. Since he basically had disappeared .  It turns out he was hanging with his dealer . First chance to write?  He was on BareBack RT at all hours ofthe day and night , so this is clearly a lie!  He was too busy getting high and perving out to worry about housing.
Matt also has my phone.
No, I didn’t have his phone!  See email in blog post “Abnegation “where he clearly is asking Craig Waldo to call him at his new telephone number.

My boss has kindly let me stay in a room behind the store for the last
two weeks, but now I need to find another place.  She is also giving
me as many hours as she can.  I will be working a lot for the next
three weeks.  Still, sometimes I only get about 20 hours a week.  I
earn $12 an hour.

I’d like to meet to discuss housing.

Sincerely,

Howard Tharsing

Criminal Behavior?

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Shame on Howard! 

This behavior is inappropriate!    

This is how Chip honors the millions of people who have died from HIV/AIDS.
Howard writes”Join my gang of bareback fuckers”

 

 

From: ChipT
To: SF8PlusTop
Sent: Sat, Mar 4, 2006 8:47 am
Subject: Jack’s Crew

I am looking for tops to join my gang of bareback fuckers. We will be getting together on a regular basis to gangbang the city’s hottest bottoms, filling them with our jizz. You should be in good shape (height-weight proportionate), well hung, and reliable. You should also be tolerant of those who want to pnp (though you need not do so yourself).

Send stats (height, weight, age), a clear pic of your face, and a clear full body shot of you standing naked.

Cheers!
Chip

Contradiction

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I’m Confused.

  If you read the post from this blog entitled “Too Much Information”  you will see the following statement from Dr. Howard “Chip” Tharsing.  ”I like an occasional cocktail before dinner but do not use any drugs”  

  Why then is he answering ads on Craig’s List that are specifically looking for others to join them in a “cloudy” environment? 

  We have seen his journal entries in a blog post entitled “The Lies We Tell Ourselves” where Howard admits that he can not tell the truth.  
   
Howard writes
 ”the root of my loss and my shame is my dishonesty, not my use of alcohol or drugs.  My trouble is that my first response to most difficult situations is to tell a lie.  I am almost incapable of saying anything that might make my interlocutor uncomfortable“ 
and Howard goes on to say 
“I do as I please, but when I talk to people, I focus on their reaction to what I say and not the content of my words.  I rarely try to relate what I am saying to any things or events outside of the moment in which I am speaking.“ 

When reading his statements it is important to point out the context of the situation, Howard was staying at his sisters home while she and her husband were in Montana and his ex partner of 10 years had just realized that Howard had been lying to him for years.  
Howard also writes
“I said that I had fallen against the door, not that one of three relative strangers whom I had invited to her (his sister Penny)house to use drugs and fuck for hours had fallen and made the hole.”
and that
“(Walt) realized that I had been lying to him about its use, and often about my whereabouts, for years.“

It is then safe to conclude that Howard is lying to potential roommates.

Here are the contradictions.   

Poor Walter

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So the truth behind this lie is that Chip actually was at Hayden Brown’s apartment all day getting high (see picture below that was taken on the same day as this journal entry).  

Remember if you disagree with Chip or dislike his behavior in anyway you are labeled “controlling”

Poor Walter!


I act like a f r i g h t e n e d   m o u s e   i n   a n   a t t e m p t   t o   p l a c a t e   h i s   a n g e r .     I   a s k   w h e t h e r   h e   w a n t e d   m e   t o   s t o p   c o o k i n g ,   a n d   h e   s a i d   n o . 

 H e   s a t   i n   t h e   l i v i n g   r o o m   w a t c h i n g   T V   a n d   d r i n k i n g   h i s   c o c k t a i l   u n t i l   I   s e r v e d   d i n n e r  

 W a l t e r   h a s   g o n e   t o   b e d   v e r y   e a r l y   t o n i g h t ,   h a v i n g   b e e n   a n g r y   a t   m e   f r o m   t h e   m o m e n t   I   w a l k e d   i n   t h e   d o o r .     W e   h a d   g o n e   t o   M a n c i n i   S l e e p   W o r l d   i n   B e r k e l e y   t o   g e t   a   g u e s t   b e d   s o   t h a t   w h e n   R u t h   v i s i t s   i n   t h e   n e x t   c o u p l e   o f   w e e k s ,   s h e   w i l l   h a v e   a   c o m f o r t a b l e   p l a c e   t o   s l e e p .     W h e n   I   g o t   h o m e   f r o m   t h e   g y m ,   h e   r a i l e d   a t   m e   b e c a u s e   h e   w a s   h u n g r y   a n d   I   w a s   n o t   h o m e   t o   m a k e   d i n n e r . 


“Jack Fucking Hayden”

 I   p r o m p t l y   b e g a n   m a k i n g   t h e   s p a g h e t t i   s a u c e   t h a t   w e   h a d   p l a n n e d   o n ,   a n d   t h e n   W a l t   c o m p l a i n e d   t h a t   I   w a s   c o o k i n g   b e c a u s e   I   w a s   a f r a i d   o f   h i m ,   t h a t   I   w a s   s c u r r y i n g   a b o u t   l i k e   a   f r i g h t e n e d   m o u s e   i n   a n   a t t e m p t   t o   p l a c a t e   h i s   a n g e r .     I   a s k   w h e t h e r   h e   w a n t e d   m e   t o   s t o p   c o o k i n g ,   a n d   h e   s a i d   n o . 


 H e   s a t   i n   t h e   l i v i n g   r o o m   w a t c h i n g   T V   a n d   d r i n k i n g   h i s   c o c k t a i l   u n t i l   I   s e r v e d   d i n n e r .     A f t e r   e a t i n g ,   I   b e g a n   c l e a n i n g   u p   t h e   k i t c h e n .     T h e n   h e   c a m e   i n   a n d   s t a r t e d   q u e s t i o n i n g   m e   a b o u t   t h e   p h o n e   c a l l   I   h a d   m a d e   t o   h i m   w h e n   H a y d e n   w a s   h e r e ,   a n d   I   w a s   d e c i d i n g   w h e t h e r   o r   n o t   t o   g o   t o   h i s   p l a c e   t o   f u c k   a r o u n d   w i t h   h i m . 

 A t   t h e   e n d   o f   t h a t   p h o n e   c a l l ,   I   a p p a r e n t l y   s a i d   t o   H a y d e n    H e  s   o n   h i s   w a y   h o m e ,    b e f o r e   t h e   p h o n e   h a d   f u l l y   h u n g   u p .     W a l t   h e a r d   m e   a n d   w a s   i n   a   r a g e   w h e n   I   g o t   h o m e   t h a t   a f t e r n o o n .     T o n i g h t   h e   b r o u g h t   i t   a l l   b a c k   u p . 

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Profile of the Sociopath

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Profile of the Sociopath
http://youtu.be/cjWZ5lOlLfw
Is he a saint or a psychopath?

Glibness and Superficial Charm 


Manipulative and Conning 
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims. 


Grandiose Sense of Self 
Feels entitled to certain things as “their right.”
 

Pathological Lying

Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests. 


Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt 
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. 


Shallow Emotions 
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises. 


Incapacity for Love 


Need for Stimulation 

Meet Jack

Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.


Callousness/Lack of Empathy 
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others’ feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. 


Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature 
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. 


Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency 
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet “gets by” by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc. 


Irresponsibility/Unreliability 

Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed. 


Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity 
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. 




Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle 
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively. 


Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility 
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.
Other Related Qualities:


Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
Authoritarian
Secretive
Paranoid
Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
Conventional appearance
Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim’s life
Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim’s affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
Incapable of real human attachment to another
Unable to feel remorse or guilt
Extreme narcissism and grandiose
May state readily that their goal is to rule the world


(The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare.) 

Too Much Information

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Too Much Information

Would you answer this plea for help?
He says he wants solitude, but talks only of the drama that has occurred.   My other observation is that within the first sentence there are hints of alcoholism and drug use.  
Not my first choice for a roommate.
Cocktails

From: Howard Tharsing
Date: March 22, 2012 15:36:15 PDT
To: Howard Tharsing
Subject: letter

I am a 59 year old single gay man looking for a place to live because
I recently broke up with my younger partner who was addicted to
methamphetamine.  I like an occasional cocktail before dinner but do
not use any drugs.  I work in SF four days a week and write in my
spare time.  I have finished a novel that I am trying to puiblish and
am beginning a second one.   I need a peaceful, quiet home.  Solitude
is my priority.

I need to move as soon as possible.  Please reply one way or the other
as soon as you can.

Thank you.

Sincerely,
                                                     Howard Tharsing

Sonnet 94

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   Sonnet 94  
by 
William Shakespeare

They that have power to hurt and will do none   
That do not do the thing they most do show,   
Who, moving others, are themselves as stone,   
Unmoved, cold, and to temptation slow;   
Before Meth

They rightly do inherit heaven’s graces

And husband nature’s riches from expense;   
They are the lords and owners of their faces,   
Others but stewards of their excellence.   
The summer’s flower is to the summer sweet,   

Though to itself it only live and die,
But if that flower with base infection meet,   
The basest weed out braves his dignity:   
After Meth

  For sweetest things turn sourest by their deeds;   

  Lilies that fester smell far worse than weeds. 

I Love To Hate You!

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I Love To Hate You!

  I’m crazy flowing over with ideas
A thousand ways to woo a lover so sincere?
Love and hate what a beautiful combination
Sending shivers up and down my spine


For every Casanova that appears
My sense of hesitation disappears
Love and hate what a beautiful combination
Sending shivers up and down my spine
And the lovers that you sent for me
Didn’t come with any satisfaction guarantee
So I return them to the sender

And the note attached will read
How I love to hate you
I love to hate you
I love to hate you
I love to hate you


Oh you really still expect me to believe
Every single letter I receive
Sorry you what a shameful situation
Sending shivers up and down my spine

I like to read murder mystery
I like to know the killer isn’t me
Love and hate what a beautiful combination
Sending shivers make me quiver
Feel it sliver up and down my spine